i just had an interesting talk with a friend of mine this afternoon. he is one very interesting character and truthfully if he wasnt my friend, i wld find him terribly irritating and obnoxious. it is very interesting how friends can just get away with murder but coz they are ur friends u overlook most of their flaws... but if they are ur friends bfs or friends' friend then u'll find them just unbearable or weird? well i have just this one friend... and he really entertains me and vice versa. we look at the world in a different perspective and our conversations tend to be one where each of us have to explain why we view the world a certain way.
today's was abt how as a boyfriend, he wouldnt even bother getting to know his gf's friends, even best friends. first off, i have to explain that i find it very rude when my best friends' bfs dont make a concerted effort to at least meet and know a little of the others... afterall arent the friends of ur gfs the pple who will either fight for u or fight against u? im not saying that he shd hang out with us all the time but at least make the first move to at least get the gfs to like u first?
but guess what... my dearest friend said no he will not even bother. simply that. his reason being that coz he has such a high percentage of people he doesnt like, he'd must rather not take the chance of not liking the best friends and therefore not meet them. but then again he judges people really quickly, and i haf seen how he just doesnt bother to spend a little effort trying to know someone he initially found attractive in pics once he saw her in person coz he thought she looked like a certain way. haha an interesting person really but what he says might just be the reason y im having a hard time with a new bf in the picture. i knw sometimes its not the guys fault fully when the girls themselves get all silly during the honeymoon period but really... everyone else is suffering in a way.
maybe im just too hard on others, holding up my expectations to them. but if i can get my bfs to make an effort i dont understand how others cant heh oh well food for thought i guess
but then again its back to the same thing... all my gfs all happily attached and im the extra without one haha and somehow they still think i'll be the first to get hitched :D they are more optimistic than i am hahahahaha either that or highly delusional but i love them nonetheless
